It is a sad fact of life that some people cheat.This is usually devastating news, so when this ends a
marriage of some 30 years, it can be even more difficult. What has been even more devastating for our client to come to terms with is when the subject of enquiry is deceased.
Who's truth should you
believe....
The client's life is already shattered by the loss of their partner, and then to
discover that all was not as
Rosy in the garden as one had assumed.
So who's truth do they
believe. The 1st wife, the mistress, the silent business partner, the family they never knew about ???
The only truth to
believe is the facts... The cruel hard facts. In our advice to the client, this must be the
only way they can move forward. The what
ifs, the
whys, the
maybes all those questions that they have, that will never be answered by the only person that could.
This is a case that has been on-going now for several months and will be on-going for many more to come, as each piece of information is
obtained and
delicately relayed to the client. and the client's and subject's adult child.
The case for Insight started as a rumour told to the client that the subject had family that were unknown to the client. - Yes fact - Proven.
The next line of enquiry was to establish a previous
marriage. - Yes fact - Proven.
The next line of enquiry was to search for any other children, outside the clients
marriage. Yes fact - Proven.
Not wanting to
believe hard facts in ink, the client asked us to
obtain a photograph of the
deceased, from their army
career, just in case it was a case of mistaken identity.
Showing the faded picture, now some 40 years old, to the client, there was no doubt in the client's mind that it was the subject in question.
Our line of enquiry has now taken us down the route of the siblings of the 1st
marriage.
How far the client and their' Daughter wish to proceed along this route , we shall have to wait and see.
Their journey is not over yet, let us just hope Insight can bring some good news to then along the way.
At least if they were alive, the client could have the pleasure of dealing with matters as they though best, this will never be the case here. No matter what truth comes forward, good or bad, going back over many many years, it will just have to be taken in.